As summer draws to a close so does the
wedding season! I know that summertime is traditionally a busy wedding season, but this year it seems to be constant! If I'm not attending a
wedding or a wedding reception, I seem to be partaking in a Hen night/day or helping to arrange the Hen weekend, visiting bridal shops, florists and of course not to mention Wedding Fayre that occur up and down the country. Not that I mind of course - it is what us girlies love doing - shopping, weddings and partying!!
Apart from the
Wedding itself - which of course is beautiful/romantic/emotional/perfect/unforgettable etc etc, it seems to be the Hen and Stag Parties that are becoming an event themselves. Gone are the days when it used to be a few
drinks the night before the wedding with the girls/boys and then home in bed by 10pm! These days it seems to have turned into a weekend event (at the bare minimum!) and almost a competition of who can have the most outrageous Hen/Stag party. I should point out at this juncture that if you are silly enough to arrange your 'last night of freedom' the night before your wedding, then I have absolutely no sympathy for you if you feel a little 'ropey' on the day of your wedding!!
Over the years I have partaken in various Hen activities and some of course have been wilder than others - from more relaxed activities such as pottery painting and afternoon tea to horse riding, visits to the zoo, trips abroad, a night in a
Beer Kellar and my very favourite - Burlesque
dancing (nipple tassels and all!). But I can safely say I have enjoyed every one of them and of course enjoyed the dressing up - whether it is the obligatory 'Hen T-shirts', Hen hats, feather boas and various phallic items, to dressing up as
Nurses, fairies, Bumble Bees, a Bavarian
Beer Drinker and even a Penguin!
But the question is, when do these parties get out of hand? Is it when the groom/bride is arrested/lost/ends up in hospital/left naked and tied to a lamp post or is this now considered 'the norm'? Are
strippers still essential or are they now a thing of the past? Whilst I'm definitely no party pooper and have enjoyed some wild Hen/Stag tales, it does raise the questions of when do things go too far?
Please feel free to comment with your thoughts! :)